How to update my MMF form to MMP? New father in law says he can’t without removing me
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How to update my MMF form to MMP? New father in law says he can’t without removing me
Wondering if any front desk Marriott people can tell me steps to walk my 75 year old new father in law who drives the golf carts at a Marriott timeshare property, how to change my MMF auth form I have had on an off for a few years into the one that can show me as his now official in law so I qualify for MMP?
I’ve asked him couple times over the past few
months and he says he can’t add anymore people he is maxed out and that if tried to edit me I would be “deactivated”… he’s dragging his feet on figuring out with HR and I don’t want to bug him but REALLY would prefer to use the MMP rate for an upcoming boys weekend golf trip next week and save like $200 more bucks… is it possible to “max” out your list of discounted people enrolled like he says and is there a way to edit an existing person and update their relationship without “deactivating” them or removing them and not being able to readd them unless someone else is removed?
thanks in advance
I’ve asked him couple times over the past few
months and he says he can’t add anymore people he is maxed out and that if tried to edit me I would be “deactivated”… he’s dragging his feet on figuring out with HR and I don’t want to bug him but REALLY would prefer to use the MMP rate for an upcoming boys weekend golf trip next week and save like $200 more bucks… is it possible to “max” out your list of discounted people enrolled like he says and is there a way to edit an existing person and update their relationship without “deactivating” them or removing them and not being able to readd them unless someone else is removed?
thanks in advance
Last edited by flymax77; Jul 8, 2022 at 1:55 pm
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Wondering if any front desk Marriott people can tell me steps to walk my 75 year old new father in law who drives the golf carts at a Marriott timeshare property, how to change my MMF auth form I have had on an off for a few years into the one that can show me as his now official in law so I qualify for MMP?
I’ve asked him on and off the past few
months and he says he can’t add anymore people he is maxed out and that if tried to edit me I would be “deactivated”… he’s dragging his feet on figuring out with HR and I don’t want to bug him but REALLY would prefer to use the MMP rate for an upcoming boys weekend golf trip next week and save like $200 more bucks… is it possible to “max” out your list of discounted people enrolled like he says and is there a way to edit an existing person and update their relationship without “deactivating” them or removing them and not being able to readd them unless someone else is removed?
thanks in advance
I’ve asked him on and off the past few
months and he says he can’t add anymore people he is maxed out and that if tried to edit me I would be “deactivated”… he’s dragging his feet on figuring out with HR and I don’t want to bug him but REALLY would prefer to use the MMP rate for an upcoming boys weekend golf trip next week and save like $200 more bucks… is it possible to “max” out your list of discounted people enrolled like he says and is there a way to edit an existing person and update their relationship without “deactivating” them or removing them and not being able to readd them unless someone else is removed?
thanks in advance
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also wondering in the event i don’t get the proper relationship updated in time - how flexible are front desk folks at a Westin if I bring my original marriage license and present it with my currently valid MMF form and also bring my wife’s valid MMP form ? Seems like that should be legit and reasonable enough for most , as they can look up both our numbers live and make the connection, but I have no idea if there are system constraints or something where they can’t even process it if I don’t have MMP tied to my code… which in that case I would think would they accept a reservation in my wife’s name with her MMP code and then allow me to check in without her being there if I am added to the reservation ahead of time and then also if I bring my valid MMF form AND valid original marriage license?
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yes only reserving one room
Last edited by flymax77; Jul 8, 2022 at 1:52 pm Reason: Answer second part
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Just because you qualify for the MMP rate doesn't necessarily mean the property will release that rate on the dates you want to go. Check often and by 1 day at a time making multiple reservations if necessary.
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guess I’ll double check with him again… maybe he just has regrets he ‘allowed’ me to marry his daughter and is just giving me the run around 🤣 🤣 🤔..
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thanks I think this is what he said he tried initially but it would only “deactivate” me when trying to change relationship status and then require him to make a new entry and enter my info again but he doesn’t have any more spots left, ie he is “maxed out” and would have to remove one of his brothers or something…
guess I’ll double check with him again… maybe he just has regrets he ‘allowed’ me to marry his daughter and is just giving me the run around 🤣 🤣 🤔..
guess I’ll double check with him again… maybe he just has regrets he ‘allowed’ me to marry his daughter and is just giving me the run around 🤣 🤣 🤔..
Last edited by flymax77; Jul 8, 2022 at 4:35 pm
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yep, just called him up and bugged him again with a FaceTime while he confirmed love with me he can’t add new people unless he deleted his brother or sister or other daughters husband or something … I told him not to “deactivate” me from friends and family for now cus that’s better than nothing, but seems like we are stuck and he is maxed out cus he already has his “in law” slot filled up? Is that the case or is this something HR can authorize adding more slots for manually if you can prove u actually have multiple son/daughter in laws?? Thanks again for any info before I bug him again to go to his manager and down that path 🙏
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It looks like 11 is the max for immediate family members. Why not deactivate someone for you and add them later? Its simply just adding a name/relationship. I'm assuming your future wife is currently listed as an immediate family member, ask him to replace her name with yours for the time being.
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Yep...I just reread your post. I would drop your request like a hot potato. Now if you told your father in law you wanted to take his daughter to the Ritz in XYZ... I bet things would be different. But help for a boys weekend of golf.... no way.
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done. Thank you for your wisdom.